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Anna Rose's avatar

Yet another epic post for from you. I have such an affinity with foxes. When my dad got sick I saw a particular fox every evening and morning that winter. The stars and moon would still be out and the fox would sit on the wall opposite my car, one foot poised ready to jump into the nearest garden if I got too close. We used to sit in quiet companionship, just looking at one another, feeling the others presence until one of us decided it was time to go. Foxes are extraordinary.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

What a beautiful exchange. They’re remarkable creatures aren’t they. Very ethereal, attuned to a different kind of wavelength. Thanks for sharing ☺️

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Victoria Bolduc's avatar

Really enjoyed this, Thomas. The term familiar strangers is nice to have tucked away now.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

So glad you liked it!

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Mike Press's avatar

Beautiful writing.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Thanks very much

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Alice's avatar

Such a beautiful post, Thomas 💚 I have similar experiences, though they are seasonal. Like the blackbird strolling by the garden every single morning from 9 to 9:30 until it stopped, probably because of the heat. Or the seasonality to spotting the mountains every morning on my way to work until they disappeared in the summer mist.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Love this! The blackbird's song is such an iconic sound of the summer!

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Catherine's avatar

Such beautiful, thought provoking writing 💖

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Thank you for reading :)

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Rachel Goddard's avatar

Such a special part of your day, that daily connection with a more than human being. Thank you for sharing it, especially the concept of familiar strangers.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to read it ❤️

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Victoria Harrison's avatar

I love this! I hope you and the fox will continue to be familiar strangers for a long time to come

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Me too!!

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Sarah Crowder's avatar

This whole piece is so beautiful.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Thank you for reading, that means a lot ❤️

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Martin Hughes's avatar

A gorgeous, thoughtful piece. Thank you.

After more than three years of greeting Hoppy the magpie outside the house, I was sad when that came to an end.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

I’ll bet Hoppy was full of character and personality too!

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Martin Hughes's avatar

Indeed, an absolute delight!

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Gill Moon Photography's avatar

Such a beautiful piece of writing Thomas and so thought provoking. I love the song of the wren in my garden in the mornings and the sound of the tawny owl at night. I appreciate them but maybe I always expect them to be there. Often it is only when something is gone that we fully realise their true value in our lives.

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Thomas Winward's avatar

I think you’re absolutely right. I’m glad you enjoyed the piece and the wren and owl are lovely familiar strangers 💚

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Helen's avatar

Ah familiar strangers! Those are the words I’ve been seeking and not found until now, thank you! Our familiar stranger is a buzzard that sits atop a telegraph post in some nearby fields. We also used to see a yellow hammer and a deer regularly…we haven’t seen those for years, but we still automatically turn our heads to look each time we go past the spots where they would regularly be!

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Thomas Winward's avatar

The yellowhammers are doing too well at the moment sadly, but it’s lovely to see a buzzard so often!

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Jo Sundberg's avatar

Love the photos Thomas and also your contemplation on the familiar and reassuring parts of our lives.

I've never seen a fox due to the fact I live in New Zealand. We did however have a fox terrier! Thank goodness their were no foxes for him to capture. They are such beautiful creatures.

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Manuela Thames's avatar

Incredible! I love everything about this. The fox and all your observations! Familiarity is so important in life.

May you have many more mornings fretting your friend and neighbor, the fox!

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Thomas Winward's avatar

Thank you very much for reading and sharing!

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